Everyone has a different taste and beauty is subjective. Therefore, don't get discouraged if you do not comply with the society's norms and expectations. The appearance is only the first impression of a person. Fortunately, most people are not superficial and judge you by your character. Thus, the big picture is important. So be natural, not only when it comes to your appearance but also in the conversation with your flirt partner. Doing so will allow you to stay true to yourself!