The boundary line between arrogance and reservation is often blurred and may confuse you. This is understandable, because at the beginning you don't really know your flirt partner and accordingly, you cannot assess how he perceives you. Therefore, it is recommended that you remain friendly and open in the conversation. If you feel comfortable you will automatically become relaxed. It is important, that you leave your diva airs and graces at home. Keep in mind that most men don't have a desire to be with moody, exhausting women.